Gaslighting/Victim Blaming


4 Ways of Recognizing Gaslighting
“For almost my entire life, I felt as though I couldn’t trust my own memory.
If something happened that upset me, hurt me, or angered me, my reaction was often met with some variation of “That didn’t happen! I never said that! You’re overreacting!”
I would think to myself, “Am I making this up, am I creating this hurt, am I fabricating this anger?”

Trigger Warning: Sexual Violence
How to Exercise Our Right to Defend Ourselves without Being Victim-Blaming
“Increasingly, society is rightfully putting the responsibility for the crime on the person who committed it and not on the person targeted. There is nothing any survivor could do or not do that could “cause” a sexual assault, harassment, intimate partner violence, or stalking to happen.”

Posted on September 24, 2013 in Safer Space Agreement

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